MY REGRETS

Living a life free of regret is very possible…I do it, and I am aware of many other people who experience a regret free life as well. No regrets. As far as I am concerned, regret uses energy; so I can use it in a more productive way. I try my best to learn and grow with each and every life experience, so there is nothing to regret.

How does it serve us, or anyone else to hold onto the feelings of regret? Of course we can identify the lessons without regret. That is exactly how to live a regret free life. If we spend our energy learning from the experience, there really is no room in the heart and mind for regret. Holding onto regret is a choice in each and every moment. Don’t think of the past too much instead focus on the present. Live the moment. There are only things I have learnt from in the past. Some have been very painful lessons. But once the emotional intensity passes enough for me to gain perspective, I don’t regret the experience. Instead, I push myself to try to learn and to grow from it. I then try to leverage this learning moving forward.I think what’s important is to give yourself the freedom to fail to take risks but not the freedom to fail to learn and grow. The only mistake we can make is believing we shouldn't make mistakes. The only failure we can make is the failure to learn (and thereby rob ourselves of the opportunity to leverage our experiences). Live. Learn. Grow. When we will do these things while loving and being fair to ourselves,regret shall be fleeting and experience;everlasting.

There is no reason in crying over spilled milk and blaming ourselves for unaccomplished wishes, and worrying about how one could have changed the course of their life. One should move on look forward to evening and make best of what remains of the day. A lesson to be learnt is that we should not get caught up in formalities and should always follow and pursue our desires. So forget the past and live in the present.